My “Back Roads America Tour” is officially over. I drove to the four corners of the USA, stopping at towns big and small to share the art of belly dancing, as well as to show my film and sign books; “40 Days and 1001 Nights, One Woman’s Dance Through Life in the Islamic World.”
With so much driving, it was really hard to keep up with my blog while I was on the road, but now I am on a plane, returning home from judging a belly dance competition in Tokyo, Japan, and I have time to type the last installment.
Here is a recap of the last month of my trip; New Mexico, Colorado, California, and parts in between.
(Please take a look at the archives as I was traveling for three months, ten days, and there were amazing adventures in every corner of the USA.)
Oklahoma was a long state, but I drove all the way across, panhandle and all. Twice, I was stopped for speeding; once because it was so far between gas stations that I was on empty with no town in sight. The sun was beginning to set, so I went 85mph, figuring that if I ran out of gas, I would do so earlier and hopefully someone would help me before it got dark. There was no cell phone service to call the AAA.
Lo and behold, I got pulled over for speeding. When I explained my dilemma, the officer said “There’s a gas station 2 miles up the road.” And he let me off with a warning.
That night, as I pulled into a little town, rain started to pour down. A very nice Indian family owned the hotel, but I wondered how they got from India to this boarded up, semi abandoned little town. Some bikers from Tennessee were tying down their Harleys because a storm was coming. Sure enough, a tornado ripped through the area. I was told to park my car where I could see it out my window. At least I would see it blow past my window.
The tornado didn’t wreak havoc. It only knocked out the internet service.
Oklahoma isn’t ugly. Pleasant farmlands go on and on. For some reason, playing music from Mali and Morocco on my car stereo seemed appropriate. I was so careful not to speed, but sure enough, the moment I took my eye off the speedometer, there was an officer. This one gave me a warning too.
New Mexico
Finally! After two days, I crossed the border into New Mexico. I sat in an old cowboy style hotel and ordered “Frito pie with green chili”. Ranchers in ten gallon cowboy discussed the dilemma of wild dogs attacking their cattle..
Farm lands gave way to a majestic desert. Then I found myself winding through pine trees and mountain roads.
I stayed at the “Abominable Snowmansion.” The town of Arroyo Seco consists of one street and a lot of hippies. This was my second experience with American hostelling on this trip. It is a different experience from Europe, where hostelling is a cheap and clean communal place to stay for student travelers. When I called the Snowmansion to reserve the room, the woman said “You know this is a hostel, not a hotel, and you know the difference?”
Upon arrival, I understood. I was greeted with a special smell- like musty kale with a bit of garlic. Desert dust permeated the Mexican blankets. Two cats stared down a big dog that lay blocking the old wooden staircase to my room. Dozens of people lived in this communal holdover from the 1970’s. Those who stayed for free tended the organic garden or cooked the nightly meal. Sure enough, kale with garlic was on the menu.
People stayed in teepees, cabins, brought their own tents, or merely slept in cars. I was one of a hand full who got my own room. Some were young, healthy, and just out of college, hailing from the US, Israel, or South America. Others were older, ranging from drifting Vietnam vets, burnt out from life’s journeys, to a white haired woman who stayed in her 1960’sVolkswagon Beetle that she had bought 40 years ago in Seattle.
Suddenly, a blend of New Orleans Jazz, and funk blasted through town. The tiny plaza filled with folks young and old. Rainbow colors prevailed. The town of Arroyo Seco danced the night away to Trombone Shorty. Brought directly from New Orleans, this 20 something man had been a child prodigy in the music world. He had everyone spellbound. Even tiny toddlers jumped up and down when the entire band marched through the crowd playing “When the Saints Go Marching In”.
Down the road was the home of the Taos Pueblo Indians. They still live in the “Pueblo”, a series of adobe structures surrounded by mountains and rivers.
The similarity to Egypt’s Siwa Oasis was uncanny. In Siwa, there is a “Shali”, which was a five story adobe structure where most of the town’s folk lived until it was melted by rain in 1926. The Pueblo has a similar structure, although it is still intact and inhabited. Siwa is inhabited by Amazigh (Berbers0, who are a native people, and they have many similar issues to the people of Taos Pueblo. I spoke to some of the leaders about the possibility of leaders from both cultures meeting. It was apparent that the Siwans stand more to gain than the Pueblo, as the Pueblo are well organized and know the channels for negotiating their rights. Siwan Shaikhs could learn a lot from them as their people still suffer tremendous oppression from the Egyptian police state.
The Pueblo is open for visitors during certain hours of the day, certain times of the year. Many local artisans sell jewelry and pottery from their homes. I bought some silver earrings and traded a book for “three symbolic bears made of sandy earth. The Pueblo believe that bears and humans have many similar qualities. Apparently, if a mother has cubs during hibernation, she teaches them all the survival skills they will need in life while they are still in the cave. When they go out in the world, they already know how to gather berries, fish, etc.
Santa Fe, New Mexico
My weekend of workshops and events were held in Santa Fe, the most stylish of small cities where some of America’s top opera, contemporary ballet, and Flamenco spring from.
Santa Fe has a special place in my heart as my brother, Richard lives there. We spend time eating yummy green chili laden dishes. I brought his big dog some squeaky tennis balls. Once he learned the power of squeaking, he noisily exerted his power day and night.
I showed sections of my film to a crowd of well travelled enthusiasts at a book store called “The Travel Bug.” It was interesting how there was reticence about my presentation before hand, but once it got under way, people didn’t want it to end.
My gracious host for the performance and workshop was Pomegranate Studios, directed by Myra Krien. In addition to being an extremely skillful dancer, she is highly educated and eloquent. One of Pomegranate’s programs is called “Little Seeds”, in which teenagers can learn life empowerment skills through the art of belly dancing.
I stayed with a dancer/ jewelry maker named Pilar. Her original teacher was a friend of mine in Puerto Rico. She shared many techniques of how she cuts aluminum, recycles metal and makes it shine forever.
When we went out to eat after the show, a hungry drifter left without paying for his food. In addition, he stole money off one of the tables. Two waiters tried to chase him down. Blocks away, as we were walking to our cars, the drifter whizzed by, waiters still in hot pursuit. The dynamic suddenly changed when the drifter pulled a knife. We all called the police on our cell phones. The waiters pinned the man to the ground and held hum until the police came.
After the events were over, Myra treated us to a day at a beautiful Japanese style spa in the mountains. It was so beautiful and idyllic!
Then we went to her vintage adobe home down a series of dirt roads, for a gourmet dinner party. In Santa Fe, most of the interesting homes are on un paved roads with Spanish names.
What are also interesting are the people who call themselves “Spanish”. Their forefathers came to the area when it was still under Spanish rule. Some churches have inscriptions stating that they were built in the 1600’s. New Mexico didn’t become a US state until the 1920’s. Although there are many Mexican immigrants, the local Spanish have little in common with them. New Mexican Spanish is only spoken among those who claim long held Spanish roots. Many of these early settlers were of Jewish or Arabic ancestry, but had already become totally catholicized. They brought much of their architectural style with them, which had a strong North African influence. This influenced the indigenous population, hence the similarities between the Siwa Oasis and the Taos Pueblo. Local “Spanish” sounds a bit like old Spanish mixed with Ladino (The language of Sephardic Jews who were forced to assimilate or leave Spain in 1492.) There is such an intense form of Catholicism in the area that in the mountains, groups of people called “Penitentes” bearing crosses hike on their knees and beat themselves bloody during certain festive times of the year.
Colorado
The smell of sulfur permeates Pagosa Springs. This is a little town in southern Colorado, dominated by one street. The most touristic hot spring is a series of mineral pools overlooking the river. Somehow, I never made it to that. I treated my time in Pagosa as an internet catch up day, which became two days and three nights. Just as I though I would get caught up, the internet went down and I spent my last night finishing choreography for my next workshop.
There was an old building downtown with all sorts of sulfurous pools. It was beautiful and luxurious and only cost $8 to use them all. While soaking in one of the pools on a roof top overlooking the town, I met a couple who told me where the locals go… an old motel.
Sure enough, the motel had a big, hot, pure mineral water sulfur pool to swim in. Another old tile lined pool in a back room was so hot that a sign warned not to soak for more than five minutes.
A woman did cranio sacral body work on me. Cranio sacral is very interesting as they move a special fluid that is generated from you spine around your body and detect any energy blockages. It feels so good!
My workshop, show, and film showing were in Lake City, Colorado. This is a tiny town in the mountains where a lot of Texans come for the summer. It has an old west, cowboy movie look, complete with dirt roads and wooden sidewalks.
Arts and activities are alive in the summer in Lake City. Most people I met showed me their paintings. And the local theater was abuzz every night. When I arrived, I attended a clogging - belly dance show. It had been sold out every night, and at the end of the show, cloggers, belly dancers, and the audience joined together to dance a rousing “YMCA”. Sophisticated? Maybe it was so unabashedly un cool that it was wonderful! A magic moment where a theater full of people of all ages were moving together while clogging, moving hips, and making Y’s, M’s. C’s. and A’s with their arms.
My hostess, Carol’s husband brought some home made Thai curry to the local bar for the after party.
The next day, my workshops began. Dancers came from all over Colorado and we danced to the songs of “Made in Zanzibar” high in the mountains. That night was the local talent show and I was the guest artist. I made time for a clogging lesson in between. I’ve wanted to take up clogging ever since I saw it at the “Hillbilly Hoedown” in West Virginia near the beginning of the tour. The next day, after my workshop I took another clogging lesson, then showed my film. People had lots of questions about life in the Muslim world, and the little girls thought I was a star.
There is no crime in Lake City, but bears are a menace. People are told to keep their doors and windows shut because bears will break into their homes and steal the food from their kitchens. Several people shared bear stories with me, such as Carol’s mother in law, who had lived in the house where I was staying, who found a bear in her kitchen and chased it away with a broom. Then people who sit in their Jacuzzis at night and get surprise visits from bears.
Carol and I sat in her Jacuzzi at midnight. It was so beautiful under the starry, crispy cold mountain sky. But I couldn’t help looking over my shoulder in case a bear wanted to join us.
I was born in Colorado, and lived the first few years of my life between Denver, Evergreen, and Colorado Springs. I paid my aunt a visit in Denver then drove to Evergreen where my 91 year old uncle and his wife still live in a house right near the one my father and brothers built for our family in the mountains, circa 1959.
A long Road to California
It took me three days to get from Evergreen to Berkeley, California where I taught an online workshop at Suhaila’s studio. I ended up driving a lot at night, accompanied only by a set of Pimsleur Language CD’s teaching me how to speak Swahili. If you saw me buzzing through Utah or Nevada talking to myself, I was actually speaking to my CD player in Swahili.
After a nice visit to the Arches National Park, which is full of beautiful red rock formations, then Salt Lake City, where I spent all day tracing my genealogy, I headed to Antelope Island. Located at the end of a long bridge into the Great Salt Lake, this island had lots of buffalo roaming free, with a few antelopes interspersed. I waded far out into ankle deep, salty water to see the sunset over the salt lake.
Bay Area
I got to Berkley at midnight, and was scheduled to teach a workshop at Suhaila Salimpour’s studio. There were two days of workshops, as part of her online class series.
Suhaila’s mother is the legendary Jamila Salimpour. The woman who originated Tribal style belly dance, Jamila was the main force behind the spread of belly dance on the west coast of the US. When I took my first belly dance lessons in Seattle, in 1976, my teachers were students of students of Jamila. She named the belly dance steps, which never had names in the Middle East, as people simply grew up dancing and never needed names for steps. For foreigners, learning as adults, the movements had to be codified. There are still meetings and symposiums on naming the movement vocabulary. I have never quite understood why we don’t use the names Jamila gave us. Some we do use, such as “Egyptian basic”, or “Camel”. She also wrote books on the dance and its history, finger cymbal manuals, and more. She has contributed immensely to the development of belly dance in the US. I felt privileged to be able to eat lunch with her on two occasions, hearing about the ancient matriarchal cultures of North Africa, and how she created an elaborate finger cymbal dance.
On my way to the last stop on the Back Roads tour, I stopped at the Esalen Retreat Center just outside of Big Sur. What an amazing place! Hot sulfur pools jut out over cliffs with crashing waves below. They call it “clothing optional”, but in reality, one should be in the bathing area nude. If some people wore clothes and others didn’t, there would be some level of self consciousness. Being among lots of strangers, both male and female, all in the nude was a new experience for me. It is actually quite liberating, and not decadent at all. Three huge organic buffets were offered daily and everyone sat at wooden picnic tables to eat and socialize. There was a “shamana” (female shaman) from Mexico who gave healings by removing tiny pellets of negativity and blockages from your body with her teeth.
LA
When I arrived in LA, my friend and former student, Jackie and I stayed in an apartment in Santa Monica. From the balcony we could see a wild fire burning in the hills surrounding LA. When I gave a workshop in West Hollywood, the smoke was so strong that it burned my throat as I tried to talk. I did a book signing in a new age bookstore, which is said to be busy most evenings. But this time there was very little traffic.
The concept of the “Back Roads America tour” works best in small communities, as people have time to take an interest in my book and film project. In a large city like LA, many events are happening simultaneously. Most people have agents who have connections, and even the belly dancers don’t really get the concept of my project. I wasn’t surprised, but had wanted to visit Jackie anyway…And my niece, Erika, who I had visited in New York near the beginning of the tour just moved to Long Beach, wo we got together too.
The best LA “Back Roads” event was a small gathering of yoga teachers in Topanga Canyon. Topanga is a small town in the hills, located in the LA area. It is interesting that one can be in LA and in a rural town at the same time. I showed my film, projected onto a sheet on the side of a house perched over the canyon. They did grasp and appreciate the information I was sharing.
On our way out of Topanga Canyon, Jackie told me that coyotes are prevalent in the area and she was afraid to let her dog stray from her sight for fear that he would get attacked by one. At that moment, as I was winding down a mountainous road, a coyote stood in the middle of the road and stared at us, as if to say “Where is that alleged little doggie?”
The world famous belly dancer, Jillina is launching a new project entitled “Bellydance Evolution”. It is a show that will tour the world. They have a cast of six main characters, who enact themes from Greek mythology through belly dance and ethnic dances. Then they audition a local cast in each country via Youtube to be the chorus. On my last night in LA, we went to the first show. It was a clever concept and a beautiful accomplishment. I ran into so many familiar faces from the southern California belly dance community at her after party.
Headed home
Distances in the west are huge. To get home to Seattle, I had to begin by traversing the entire state of California. Of course, I wasn’t going to do the whole state in one shot, so I stopped in San Francisco and did a bit of tourism.
Then I drove some back roads north of the Napa Valley to Wilbur Hot Springs. I was hooked on bathing in hot sulfur pools. In the middle of nowhere, then down a long dirt road, I reached this turn of the century hotel where I had the dormitories to myself. It was impeccably clean and contained a huge, state of the art kitchen for preparing ones own food. It was amazing to soak in the tubs at midnight, then again the next day in the sunlight, surrounded by nature and golden hills.
Then there was Ashland, Oregon, a small town that is famous for the Shakespeare Festival. It was refreshing to be in Oregon, where pumping one’s own gas is illegal. I appreciated having someone else do the pumping and washing my windows.
My last night on the road was spent in Newport Beach. It was like a full circle. My first night of the first mini back roads tour to Eugene, Oregon last January was spent in Eugene, in the same hotel overlooking the ocean. It was a treat staying in this big room with a fireplace. I slept with the balcony door open hearing the waves crashing through the night.
The next day, I drove straight to my parent’s house, just outside of Seattle where I recounted many adventures after three months and thirteen days on the road, driving from one end to the other, top to bottom of the USA. So often I have traveled abroad, teaching dance and touring. The USA is full of surprises. There is a lot of tradition, culture, and variety from place to place. I did not experience the negativity we hear on the news such as fearful folks screaming against Obama’s health care reforms, or violence that dominates the news in the form of people being found dead, rapists, or school stabbings. Yes those exist, but just as my experiences traveling through the Muslim world for “40 Days and 1001 Nights”, I saw a land of beauty and humanity beyond what is fed to us by the media. Sure, the negative things exist, but there are far more good and interesting things to experience that we rarely hear about.